Shelter House welcomes Rachelle Wyatt as Volunteer Coordinator

Amidst COVID 19, Shelter House has hired Rachelle Wyatt, a 2019 graduate of Florida State University, as the Program and Volunteer Coordinator. With her background in Hospitality, Wyatt will lead efforts in recruiting and coordinating volunteers for the various Shelter House events and donation drives.

Wyatt comes from a background of event planning and coordination in the Destin and Fort Walton Beach area. Prior to COVID 19, Wyatt was the Catering and Conference Service Coordinator for the Henderson Beach Resort in Destin, Florida. Her skills in vendor relations, conference and meeting planning, and budgeting cross over into her new role in Shelter House.

With the ongoing pandemic affecting volunteering efforts, Wyatt continues to work tirelessly to coordinate and fill opportunities for individual volunteers, as group volunteering has been put on hold to ensure appropriate social distancing. Current opportunities to volunteer include lawn care, stocking and sorting pantry items, and organizing other donations.

“The work our volunteers put in truly plays a vital role in our operations,” said Shelter House Executive Director, Rosalyn Wik. “Having a strong, organized professional like Rachelle in this role will make a big impact on office services, shelter life and community events, when those resume.”

Financial Literacy As A Tool To End Domestic Violence

In addition to Sexual Assault Awareness Month, April was also Financial Literacy Month. In honor of that, we want to share how improved financial literacy and economic stability can help victims find safety from an abusive relationship.

Research shows financial stability as the leading indicator of whether a victim will be able to get and stay safe from an abuse so it’s imperative to help domestic violence survivors with their finances.

Shelter House offers classes periodically at the residential shelter and throughout the community using a curriculum developed by All State called “Moving Ahead Through Financial Management”. The curriculum utilizes modules to increase understanding of financial abuse and how to counteract or address its effects.  Topics include budgeting, insurance, identity theft, credit , banking, taxes, and resume building.

Next community class will be May 25, 2019 from 9am-11am at location TBD. For more info on it contact Ana @ 850-243-1201.

The May community class will focus on tips for purchasing a car and basic car care/maintenance. Class participants will learn how to protect their investment by becoming familiar with basic car maintenance taught by a licensed mechanic.



Aimee Shaffer, our 2018 SpokesPURSEn of the Year

Aimee Shaffer, our 2018-2019 Purses with a Purpose SpokesPURSEn of the year, is a ray of sunshine in our community. When she isn’t working for her pet sitting business, Aimee’s Animal Magnetism, you will find her spreading joy and volunteering in the community by emceeing for events or attending fundraisers to support causes near and dear to her heart.

Her love of volunteering goes all the way back to her childhood where she helped her mother with various charitable organizations. Her mother was a shining example of using your time, heart, and talents to help others. She was an avid volunteer who taught her daughter the importance of serving others. Sadly, her sweet mother passed away when Aimee was only 12 years old leaving her heartbroken and alone. Through volunteering, she is able to live out her God-given talents and preserve her mother’s legacy.

Aimee endured a lot of hardship and struggle in her life. She is a survivor of repeated domestic violence and came out of the horrible trauma with the help of good friends. There wasn’t a safe place for victims to go and seek help back then. Victims were made to feel ashamed and encouraged to be silent. Aimee is very passionate about the mission at Shelter House and volunteers her time to pay it forward to others. She believes everyone deserves to feel safe, be heard, and receive the help they need. Aimee became the 2018 SpokesPURSEn by raising the most money during Shelter House’s signature event, Purses with a Purpose. She was also inducted into the Okaloosa County Women’s Wall of Honor in 2010 and in 2014 was awarded Okaloosa County Women’s Hall of Fame for volunteering. She has been one of the best things to happen to our community.

Partial Government Shutdown Impacts Local Victim Services Program

Shelter House forced to cut back on life-saving services for domestic violence and sexual assault survivors in Okaloosa and Walton counties

(FORT WALTON BEACH, Fla.) January 15, 2019 – Shelter House, the state-certified victim services program serving Okaloosa and Walton counties, is already facing negative impacts of the partial government shutdown, which began on December 22, 2018 and seemingly has no end in sight. The provision of life-saving services for domestic violence survivors and their children depends on a combination of private, state and federal funding and the continuation of these critical services has been compromised due to the current government shutdown.

Contracts for Victims of Crime Act (VOCA) funding, a source that provides nearly 40% of funding for victim services at Shelter House, are reimbursable and the agencies receiving these funds front the money to provide services and are then reimbursed by the Office of the Attorney General. Prior to the shutdown these funds were already slow to be recouped, and Shelter House had not been reimbursed since October for funds expended for victims services.

“What people may not realize is this truly is a matter of life and death – so many of the survivors coming through our doors are in imminent danger and come to us with nothing, “ stated Rosalyn Wik, Executive Director of Shelter House. “If we are forced to keep cutting back on services, victims will have nowhere to go.”

In an effort to keep the center’s most critical services operating, Shelter House responded by operating with minimum staffing patterns, suspending all supply purchases and monetary participant assistance and cutting back on contracted services such as licensed mental health therapy for adult survivors. Survivors reaching out for help may find themselves facing long wait lists for services or have to be redirected out of the county due to a lack of resources during this period of time. If the availability of federal funding is not quickly restored, in a matter of weeks the agency may have to consider program office closures, additional staffing reductions or liquidating assets just to maintain its most critical core services.

Shelter House’s emergency shelter program for domestic violence survivors and their children was at 90% of its normal operating capacity when news came that outstanding federal grant reimbursements would be halted.  Since July 1, 2018, the agency has already served 80 adults and 59 children in the emergency shelter, 272 domestic violence and sexual assault survivors at their outreach program offices, responded to 55 sexual assault victims at local area hospitals, and answered 628 hotline calls; therefore on track to serve nearly 2,000 local adult and child survivors in a one year period.

Shelter House is not unique in this predicament as a recent press release by the Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence indicates that over half of the state’s 42 certified domestic violence centers will face reduction in their level of services to survivors by month two of the federal shutdown.  A recent press release by the Florida Council Against Sexual Violence states many of the state’s 31 certified sexual assault programs are already facing layoffs, cutback, and some may be forced to close their doors. In the wake of Hurricane Michael, Florida will face uncommon fiscal challenges that will diminish the state’s ability to compensate for any loss of federal funding.

In addition to the cash flow crisis the shutdown has caused, the humanitarian impact is substantial. Even once the shutdown ends and funding is restored, it will not erase the violence suffered by those who were unable to receive services in the interim. There were 180 domestic violence homicides in Florida in fiscal year 2017-18. This number is staggering and would be much higher without the vital services provided through domestic violence centers. If centers cannot access the funding they need to continue, they will be unable to provide shelter services, safety planning, legal assistance to obtain injunctions for protection, and other critical lifesaving services. Every person deserves to live free of abuse, but for many the opportunity and ability to escape violence and find security is a matter of life or death.

Shelter House has started a fundraising campaign to keep critical services available to survivors in Okaloosa and Walton counties. Community members and supporters can contribute by visiting this donation link on the Shelter House website https://app.etapestry.com/onlineforms/ShelterHouseInc/governmentshutdownrelief.html or contacting the main program office at 850.243.1201.

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About Shelter House: Shelter House, Inc. is the state certified domestic and sexual violence center serving Okaloosa and Walton counties and offering emergency confidential shelter, crisis counseling, a 24-hour hotline, children’s programs, information and referrals, education, professional training, safety planning and prevention services to survivors of domestic violence and their children and sexual violence survivors. Help is available 24/7. If you feel that a family member or intimate partner is endangering your physical or emotional safety or if you know someone experiencing this in their home, call Shelter House’s domestic violence hotline at 1-800-44-ABUSE or 850-863-4777. If you or someone you know has survived a sexual assault, call Shelter House’s sexual assault helpline at 850-226-2027. For more information about Shelter House, please go online to www.shelterhousenwfl.org.

Shelter House hosts most successful Purses with a Purpose to date

The eighth annual event raises over $20,000 to go directly towards supporting victims of domestic violence and sexual assault in Okaloosa and Walton counties.

(MIRAMAR BEACH, Fla.) May 8, 2018 – Shelter House’s signature event, Purses with a Purpose, returned to Grand Boulevard March 22-24, 2018. This year’s event was the most lucrative year since the event’s inception in 2010, raising over $20,000 for Shelter House.

Hundreds of women gathered Thursday night at Grand Boulevard to peruse the expansive silent auction of hundreds of new and gently designer handbags and accessories while enjoying craft beer donated by Grayton Beer Company, cocktails from Timber Creek Distillery and enjoying hors d’oeuvres from Grimaldi’s Pizzeria and Another Broken Egg in Sandestin. Designer brands that were featured in the auction included Valentino, Prada, Michael Kors, Tory Burch, Dooney & Bourke, Kate Spade, Dagne Dover, Sorrelli, and more. Other sponsors included Silver Sands Premium Outlets, Appleseed Expeditions, Insurance Zone, Allstate Insurance, ERA Agent Marsha Babe, Spa 98, Wesley, McGrail & Wesley and Kilwin’s.

B-Boy Productions brought the fun for the evening, with DJ Josh Woeckener. DJ30A provided a fun photo booth complete with props and accessories sponsored by Stubbs Orthodontics. Four local ladies were honored as a “SpokesPURSEn” for Shelter House. SpokePURSEns included Aimee Shaffer, Jen Deeb, Erin Igram and Mara Clark, all local business women who have continually shown support for Shelter House’s mission. They each raised money for weeks before the event. The ladies were treated to a luxurious visit to Pin Up Girls Hair Studio Thursday afternoon to have their hair and makeup done for the VIP Party that evening. Aimee Shaffer was named “SpokesPURSEn of the Year” for raising over $1200 alone for Shelter House.

Purses with a Purpose reopened on Friday, March 23 for “Handbags and Happy Hour” for guest to enjoy cocktails while shopping through the handbag selection that remained after the auction. Saturday, March 24th Purses with a Purpose opened early, where attendees enjoyed muffins, donated by Panera Bread, mimosas and deep discounts on all remaining bags and accessories! Since its inception, Purses with a Purpose has raised more than $110,000 to support Shelter House’s critical services for domestic violence and sexual assault survivors in Okaloosa and Walton counties. Shelter House accepts donations of new and gently used handbags throughout the year. For information on sponsorship opportunities, contact Shelter House at sponsors@shelterhousenwfl.org.

Shelter House’s Second Annual Palate & Palette event is highest grossing fundraiser in organization’s history

Five-Course Wine Dinner and Live Painting raises almost $34,000 for victims of domestic violence and sexual assault

(Destin, Fla.) February 26, 2018 –Over 150 guests attended Shelter House’s 2nd Annual Palate & Palette Five-Course Wine Dinner and Live Painting on Saturday, January 27, 2018, at the Legendary Marine showroom in Destin. All proceeds for this event went directly to Shelter House, the state-certified domestic and sexual violence center that has been serving both Okaloosa and Walton counties for over 30 years. Palate & Palette, which raised almost $17,000 in 2017, raised upwards of $33,800 this year, making this Shelter House’s most profitable fundraising event since the organization’s inception in 1985.

The evening featured a live painting and a performance by Jon Moody, an award-winning multi-medium artist from New Orleans. Palate & Palette featured the area’s top chefs, each presenting one course while Moody’s painting came to life before their eyes. The lineup of culinary talent this year included:

• Jack McGuckin, Executive Chef at Bijoux Restaurant and Spirits
• Nikhil Abuvala, Owner and Executive Chef at Roux 30a
Wesley True, Executive Culinary Director at The Gulf Okaloosa Island and contestant on Season 13 of BRAVO TV’s Top Chef
• Tim Creehan, Owner and Executive Chef of Cuvee 30A
• Dan Pettis, Executive Chef of Fuel Restaurant and One20: A Modern Bistro
• Giovanni Fillippone, Executive Chef at the Vue on 30a, recently featured on Hell’s Kitchen All-Stars on FOX

Each of the chef’s unique courses was perfectly paired with hand selected wines by Republic National Distributing Company, Southern Wine and Spirits and Krutz Family Winery of Sonoma County, California. Select food and ingredients for each of the dishes were graciously donated by Whole Foods in Destin. Local beverage companies Timber Creek Distillery and Grayton Beer Company served craft cocktails and beers all night. The event featured an expansive silent auction, which featured trips, dining experiences, gift cards, wine by local artists and more. B-Boy Productions returned this year to provide entertainment with a DJ to command the modern, edgy vibe of the event. As dinners were finished, a live auction was held for guests to bid on the piece Moody had created before their eyes.

“To see the success of this event literally double within just one year is truly incredible,” said Rosalyn Wik-Iovieno, executive director of Shelter House. “The challenge our world is facing with domestic violence and sexual assault has received a substantial amount of attention in the media recently, so it speaks volumes to see our local community recognize that and step up to support our mission.”

Special thanks to other event sponsors including RSVP Events, Gulf Power, The One- Destin, Flip Flop Real Estate and Marsha Babe of ERA Real Estate Niceville.

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